Two Creators.
One Secret Language
Meet Alex – the hands that shape desire.
He’s the one you’ll catch in the shadows; head down, tools in hand, quietly perfecting each piece with intention. He works with precision, without fuss and with a skill that speaks louder than words ever could.
And her? She stays behind the scenes. By choice.
You won’t find her name here - no spotlight, no signature. Just the unmistakable touch she leaves on everything that passes through her hands.
Together, they craft the pieces no one else dares to.
Bold. Intimate. Personal. And always made for your eyes only.
Behind The Craft
Alright, so here's the part where I'm supposed to talk about myself. I've been working with jewellery, moulds and materials for more than a decade now; choosing to quietly honour and perfect my craft behind the scenes. I don't ask for fanfare and don't like fuss - I just have a steady passion for creating something that holds an insurmountable amount of meaning.
This kind of work isn't for everyone. It's intimate, it's bold and it demands nothing but discretion; which you'll always get from me. What I create isn't mass produced or thrown together. Every piece is created with heart, designed with intent and crafted to last.
I started Cum What May because I saw a gap - something raw and real was missing from the keepsake market. So I create a space where kink, connection and craftmanship collide. Something custom, personal and designed just for you.
This is more than just jewellery - what I create is quiet rebellion, a statement. And I'm damn proud to be the one making it.
- Alex
She Who Shapes
I don’t really do introductions. Not because I’m shy, but I’d rather the work speak for me.
Every piece starts in my mind. I'm the one that creates each design, I create the sketch, and I shape an idea into reality. I work alongside Alex, matching his precision with intent of my own.
What we create is forged in tandem - equal parts discipline and desire - offering two perspectives, but one shared obsession; to make something that feels as good as it looks.
I stay anonymous deliberately. Not for mystery, but for protection. I run a very successful and sacred keepsake business where grief, love and memory are preserved in every detail. I believe that deserves space, distance, and reverence.
But I also stay anonymous out of deep respect for this space — for Cum What May and for you. This isn’t about performance. It’s about privacy, boundaries, and trust. Yours matters, and so does mine.
This work is intimate, intentional, yet quietly defiant. And though you'll never see my face, you'll always feel my hand in what we make.
- M
